There are many reasons why people breake up. Sometimes it is because of different characters and I think it is the main reason.If that’s the reason it can be really difficult to get back. If people break up because of one argue there is a future for them if they really love each other.
I think the present of the third person can be also difficult for the relationship. Specially if the person is interested with our girlfriend or boyfriend. It also can be just a friend who needs a lot of attention. It often leads to neglecting our other half.
If people have not enough money or they have other problems common with running the house it can be really difficult not to argue. There are also some problems that are not as much important for example different preferences. Matter of getting back with ex is much more difficult if we talk about betrayal, addiction, violence or when people just don t feel love any more. As we see there are many reasons why people break up.
When the separation become a fact you have to ask yourself the question: Do I miss my girlfriend or boyfriend, do I want to get her or him back? If you do want to get back your ex you have to do as much as it is possible to do it! There is not just one advice how to get back with ex, because people are different and they have different preferences. It also depends of the reason of splitting up.
It is really important to give your ex a lot of attention and that’s universal advise.
Much more attention doesn t mean that you have to call your ex every minute. She just have to know that you are close and that you really care of him or her. You also have to change the thing that cause arguments and if the problem was about your behave, you have to ensure your ex that you are a different person only if ex wants it.
Second universal advise is to prove that you really love and miss your ex, that s really important. But you can t be irritated , you have to give your ex some space but dot let her forget about you. You cant ask all the time why she or him decited to split up.
No matter how paintfull it is for you, you just have to accept your other half decision. You should not be mad at your ex but just prove that you understand the decision and you try to change some things. As you can see there is not just one answer of the question : how to get back with ex. It depends of the reason and the person.
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