You lost your girlfriend and now you want her back, whether the break up happened a day ago, a month or even some years ago, or even she is seeing another gentleman, there is always a solution and we will help you to get your ex girlfriend back, that very girl that at first captured your heart. The way to get your ex back is just straightforward.
Just take your time and go through these steps outlined below. You will find yourself getting a second chance on that thing that you know that you would like to pursue.
- Take some time apart
This is the number one rule to any breakup. It is rather frustrating. Thus you must be careful. I promise that you won’t contact her for a good time (around two weeks). As breakups tend to be emotionally draining, you may need some time to breathe, calm down and put things into logical order. Spending some time apart will allow everything to settle then be less emotionally charged and you will have easier time to get your ex girlfriend back.
Also, it will buy you some time to evaluate your feelings about the breakup, the things that probably turned out the wrong way and whether or not you want her heart back.
- Focus on what YOU want
Just take the time to focus on yourself. Stay single and enjoy it. Live your life free of compromise and focus who you are. Get a new style, hang out with your friends, and go to the gym. It’s rather sexier for a single guy to live his life. It will help you re-establish your personal worth. After the two weeks of “bachelorhood”, you are 100% certain that want her beck, take a new step.
- Understand why she left you
The initial move to get your ex girlfriend back is to take really some minutes to think about what exactly caused the trouble between the two of you; the reason she dumped you in the first place. If you’re the cause of the breakup, you must have it in your mind that unless you reform yourself, she won’t stay with you even after the reunion.
Ask yourself some questions: what was she telling you before she just went away? Where there any signs? Did your “baby” say why she did not love you anymore? You will find that something just changed her mind and withdrew her love from you.
- Reach out and contact her
After taking your time, you still want her back, and then it is time to get back in contact. Whatever method you choose, ensure to keep the message light and ever playful. A message saying “baby, we have to talk” or “I want get back” is not going to make her eager to see you. Try to show her that breezy version of yourself that she knew when you first dated her.
- Get together and keep it ever casual
Whether it has been two weeks or years, remember to keep cool and casual. Meet her often during coffee or lunch hours, just like you are meeting a great friend. Anything special/grand will appear needy and like you are trying very hard to impress her. It will make her think that you are not sexually interested in her. Ensure to keep it flirty, funny, and light. Show her you are the guy that she fell in love with, not the one she broke up with and it will be hell a lot easier to get your ex girlfriend back.
- Keep having regular meet-ups
After that first meet-up with her, you still need some more. Tyr to convince her you really want her back. Although some men will get wrapped up in the process, make your relationship to the next level so that you can ensure, you got what you just wanted.
- Go for it
After some casual meet-ups, if you feel that you want her back, you can now tell her what you have just learned from the time you’ve been apart. Tell your “baby” what you have realized about the breakup and say you are working for it. Tell her you have reformed and you are ready to take her back.
- Do the work!
The things you acknowledged while you guys were apart are the very things you actually have to accomplish. Have it that getting back together lasts more than a single night. Show her that you are willing to be better than before. You also need good communication and patience. I promise you that this time your relationship will last.