Are you looking for a way to repair or better your relationship or marriage? Find the possible ways of reconciling with your husband. If your husband is leaving you, it’s because he believes he’s much to gain than to lose. He might be afraid of losing what he’d have without you; another woman if I could say! It might be also a sense of freedom or you haven’t shown him love to his full satisfactory. Men leave their marriages when they fear that they will certainly lose if they do not leave. That’s why you will hear them say, “I don’t care anymore.” For the case of women, they would leave because they have stopped loving their husbands. You will hear them say, “I don’t love you anymore” below are the possible ways to get your husband back.
Understand the Reason Why He Left You
The pioneer move to get your husband back is to take really some minutes to think about what exactly caused the trouble between the two of you; the reason why he dumped you in the first place. If you’re the reasons of the breakup, you must have it in your mind that unless you reform yourself, he won’t stay with you even after the reunion. Ask yourself some questions: what was he telling you before he just went away? Where there any signs? Did your “baby” say why he did not care anymore? You will find that something just changed his mind and withdrew hi love from you.
Learn To Take It Easy; Never Get Desperate or Needy
Your initial instinct might be to get your needy and teary eyed affirmatively pleading with your husband to return and make multiple prospects to change everything that he cannot stand to you. However, it is certain that by the time men leave their relationships or homes, they’re past the point of trusting that their wives are going to change. It is therefore clear that the desperation you might be having is not having any impact on whatever your “man’ is yearning to have without you. If anything occurs, it will just make whatever that’s even more appealing. Thus it’s just straightforward, don’t despair, you can make things happen.
Try Some Connections, Communication, and Cooperation
Accept that you won’t get your man as immediately as you think. Just give him time. He has to become more trusting to improve the frequency and consistence of communication with you. Your man has to enjoy talking with you so that he would like to be with you. He will consider getting together with you before he reasons to come back to you. The first part – connecting – can be the most challenging step. It will be very difficult for some men to get back if they have already attached themselves to another woman, or they really hate their past women. If the connection is implemented, the journey becomes simpler as the other steps are smoothened.
Get Control of Your Emotions
You should learn to have a healthy attitude although it becomes difficult due to fears of him leaving for good. It is sometimes possible to become angry and confrontational. Learn to take it easy and less needy to ensure that your gone husband never cuts off your connection with you. Have something else to focus on other than thinking about him all the time. Find some friends to spend your time with or hobbies that will make you feel good about yourself. By so doing you will relax your mind and avoid any possible misconduct with your-already-gone husband.
At times, you can construct an emotional text message. You have to pick an emotional memory that you really trust that it will affect him at a deeper level. A good mock example of an emotional memory text message could be as shown below:
Wife: do you recall how your heart used to beat fast when you’d see me? I really kept a secret for you…
Wife: when you’d smile, my heart would beat fast as well so you were not the only one! I just thought you will love to know of our sweet lives together…
Although your ex-husband might not seem interested in your conversation, learn how to handle him. Even if he stays stubborn and he answers rudely, just leave the chat clean and never confront him at any time.
As a “true Christian” you must say that the very first step in seeking harmonization is to reconcile yourself to God, thereafter, to yourself. Once this is achieved, you can begin your mission of winning her back. Your reconciliation with your man is synonymous with that flesh would. It will take time before it heals. Never try to rush it, as you may find pushing him further away from you. It will be the biggest error that you will make when trying to get your man back to your life. If you want to get your man back forever, let God be the light of your mission.
You may need help as you try to win your man back. This can come in form of seminars, video courses, audio courses, web pages, books, among others. Books in particular serve you a lot when trying to maneuver through this journey. A special version by T. Jackson; “The Magic of Making Up” enlightens on the possible ways of winning back your troubled relationship/marriage. It emphasizes on those particular efforts that a person must concentrate to bring her love back home. You will learn the possible ways of bringing your husband closer to continue with that sweet love you lived before you parted ways.
Although it might be quite challenging, getting ones ex-husband is a journey. It’s true that many men leave there relationships or marriages with no plans to return. This might be dangerous to marriages and families as well. Getting your husband back means life will continue as it used. Once the reunion is achieved, much care must be taken since the relationship could be fragile if the previous mistakes are repeated. If your husband agrees to come back to you, because of your efforts, and he stays never to leave you again, you are a marriage champion! I also encourage you to check our other guides here and here.